One day, I suppose I will want to look back and remember what I did each day (just to make myself tired all over again!) But, there is something so sweet about this time in our lives; it's a story so many parents have - how your days run into nights and you do 100 million things at a time, but yet you are so happy. These will be days I will miss once Nolan is too "grown up" for me or goes off to college, so I want to remind myself just how much of a crazy, beautiful, whirlwind they were.
5:20 - 6:30 a.m. - Nolan wakes up. My alarm technically doesn't go off until 5:45, but he never wakes at the same time - ever. Some days he wakes super early and will either be up for the day or will snooze until a bit later. Depending on what he does, Anthony and I will either snuggle/snooze while he crawls all over us in the bed, or we will just get up.
First thing once waking - I go downstairs and fix Nolan's bottles and lunch box for the day. This involves adding cereal to some of his bottles, and packing his food containers (+ spoons and cereal) for the day. His little "row" in the fridge at daycare is usually the fullest - ha. And depending on whether Ms. Vegas has decided to wake up yet, I will either take her out now or wait until we go downstairs again.
6:10 - 6:40 a.m - Depending on how well Nolan is cooperating, I will get ready during this time. He will usually either be sleeping, or playing in his pack and play in our room with this toys. I can usually get my hair washed, makeup on, and teeth brushed before he starts getting fussy. Generally, though, he is content to play and watch me during this time. I will always remember the songs his toy phone plays, and the "Shapes" and "Colors" song his little cd player toy thing plays; I swear I hear/sing them at least 10 times each morning :)
6:45 - 7:00 a.m. - Depending on the mood listed above, I will get Nolan dressed for the day. At this time, I will still be in my pajamas with wet hair :) I usually have to get him dressed and then go back and finish my hair while he plays just a bit longer until I can feed him. Some days, he can be quite fussy just depending on how hungry he is, so some days this can be quite the frantic mad dash to get my hair done (and it looks it - ha).
7:00 - 7:15 a.m. - Nolan has become quite the "quick" eater, so it doesn't take long for me to feed him in the mornings. He still exclusively nurses in the mornings, but I imagine sometime soon we will either add cereal to this routine or have them feed him at daycare. Lately, we will follow up his breakfast with two teething tablets just to keep him comfortable for a little while.
7:15 - 7:20 a.m. - I will get dressed in my work clothes for the day, then turn off all the lights and grab Nolan and head downstairs. I put him in his little walker chair so that I can grab ALL of our bags and load the car. Anthony is usually gone by this time, so it's just the two of us! I load: (1) my purse, (2) my pump bag/cooler, (3) Nolan's lunch box, (4) Nolan's nebulizer, and (5) any miscellaneous items he needs (i.e., extra diapers, clothes, etc.) I look like a bag lady but I can usually make this all in one trip! Once I get all of that loaded, I grab Nolan and we head out! I am SO thankful to have a garage that only has two steps in it rather than loading everything from the condo now.
7:20 a.m. - We leave the house and head for daycare! It takes about 12-15 minutes to get to daycare from home, and we spend this time listening to the radio. I also have two songs that I sing to him every single morning on his way to school, and I sing them in the same order and at the same place in our drive. I think he knows them by now, and will listen each time. One is his daily prayer that I made up, and the other one is his "Mama Loves Nolan" song.
7:35 ish - I drop Nolan off at daycare and get him settled in and unload his lunch box and stuff. He isn't using his Nebulizer at school anymore, but we take it just in case. He is usually in his favorite bouncy seat or playing on the floor when I leave, and will give me a great big smile when I say goodbye. I love that he loves it there, but it still makes me sad to leave him!
7:40 - 8:20 a.m. - I drive to work. My commute has pretty much doubled since we moved here, but I go a back way and don't usually have too much traffic. I actually enjoy my morning drive, and it goes by quickly. I don't however, love using all that gas! I am still hooked on getting my breakfast in the morning and sitting in my car in the parking garage, eating, and listening to my books on CD. I am a huge dork, but Nolan doesn't know this yet :)
8:30 - 8:45 a.m. - I clock in at work. My hours are technically 9-5:30 p.m., but I get in early every day. I have lots to do, and it works out well for us and this schedule, so I am early each day. I am afraid if I waited too much longer, traffic would be nuts so I haven't wanted to chance it yet!
10:00 a.m. - First pumping session of the day.
Workday - I won't delve into details (since they aren't that exciting), but I do enjoy my new job and the people that I work with. It's nice that my office is in Raleigh, so a lot of days at lunch I am able to run various errands and such that I don't have time for on the weekends.
2:00 p.m. - Second pumping session of the day.
4:45 p.m. - Third (and final - yay!) pumping session of the day. I will admit, pumping at work is hard and can be stressful when I am super busy and need to be at my desk around the clock. But I am thankful that my work is very supportive (I don't have to clock out or anything), and I get to use the "relaxation room" to pump in. It's a room they designed specifically for quiet time, and it has a recliner, CD player, and a bench that I use. There is also a little fridge that I store my milk in each day until I leave (which is nice since it doesn't get mixed in with everyone else's stuff in the cafeteria). Most days, I sit on the bench and lust for the recliner :)
5:30 p.m. - I am off like a shot out the door and on the road to get my little man! Traffic can be "iffy" in the afternoons, and I like to make sure I have plenty of time to get to Nolan's daycare before they close at 6:30. Some days, Anthony is able to get him when he gets off before me, which is nice too.
6:10 p.m. - Arrive and daycare and scoop my little man up and give him lots of kisses. He has been napping around this time lately when I arrive, so I wake him up and pack up his things and talk with his teachers about his day.
6:35 p.m. - We arrive home and try to have some "play time" with Nolan before our nightly routine ensues. Most of the time, Anthony will be home by now or not far from it. We will take Vegas out to potty, play on the floor with our toys, and sometimes Nolan will play in his play yard if I have to make a batch of his food. I usually will throw all of his bottles/food containers/my pump parts into the sink with hot soapy water to let them sit until after I put him to bed.
7:00 p.m. - Dinnertime! For Nolan, anyway. This has become a fun part of our night, and now that he is doing much better at eating, goes a bit more smoothly than before :) He will usually have a variety of foods for dinner (sometimes a fruit/vegetable + protein + cereal). He is eating more and more these days which is awesome. Depending on what needs to be done, either I or Anthony will feed him while the other one does chores/preps our dinner.
7:30 or so - It's time to start Nolan's nighttime routine and I am constantly amazed at how fast the night goes by. He is usually starting to show signs of being tired by now, but his bath always makes him happy. Again, depending on what needs to be done (or who hasn't seen him much that day), we will take turns giving him his bath. I am sure he loves Daddy's baths better since they are full of lots of play time!
7:45 p.m. - Time for the dreaded nightly breathing treatment. Now that he is on Pulmicort, he only has one breathing treatment a day. You would think (after the hundreds he has had in his life), that he would be used to them by now, but nope! Especially if he is really tired, this can be a very rough part of the night. Most times, he will end up asleep/very drousy by the time it's over, but some nights he can get really fired up!
8:00 - 8:15 p.m. - It's now time for my favorite (and Nolan's too I think) part of the night. I turn on his sound machine, close the blinds and turn off the lights, and it's time to nurse and go to sleep. Regardless of how riled up he became during his breathing treatment, he usually instantly settles down now. Some nights he will be a little wiggle worm, but will always eat and by the time he is done, is either asleep or very close to it. Some nights it takes a bit of effort to get him to go down (20 minutes or so), but most nights he is full and goes right to sleep.
While I am feeding Nolan - There is no "down time" in our schedule nowadays! While I feed Nolan, Anthony will usually begin working on our dinner and washing the bottles in the sink. I secretly like my part of this deal a whole lot better :) It really takes two of us to accomplish everything we have to do each evening, so we don't do a whole lot else during the week.
9:00 p.m. - Nolan is usually down to sleep now, and I head back downstairs and try to wake up for my "second" half of the night. I will pick up with the bottles/dinner where Anthony has left off, and depending on that, will start Nolan's bottles/food for the next day. I usually prep all of this the night before since it's quite the task. I label all of his bottles/food containers, then fill them up and put them back in the fridge ready for the next morning. The whole labeling/dating each container everyday for daycare is for the birds, but it must be done!
10:00 p.m. - Unless we did something super easy, Anthony and I eat dinner. I know it's terrible to eat dinner so late, but there isn't any other possible time to do it! We are both usually exhausted by now, so our menus haven't been that exciting lately. Anthony is my hero and will clean up the kitchen afterwards while I tend to a few other things and then get ready for bed myself.
10:30 or 11:00 p.m. - My second favorite part of the day - bedtime! I am asleep literally 20 seconds after my head hits the pillow...but it's not over yet!
Around 1:30 a.m. or so - Nolan is up for the first time of the night. He is hungry (or he eats at least), then will go back to sleep quickly.
Anywhere from 4:30 - 5:00 a.m. - Nolan wakes up a second time, and will hopefully eat and go back to sleep ASAP! I try to not look at my alarm clock to see how short of a time I have left before it goes off :) They say cereal before bed is supposed to help them sleep through the night, but I believe he will do it when he wants to. So far, he doesn't want to ;)
...then start all over again! :) But, this face makes it totally worth it ...